Alex_225 Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 (edited) Right, not sure if anyone recalls or even cared about my post about an annoying friend. Here's the background. Chap I met a year or so ago, latched onto me and became farely good mates. He didn't really have that many friends he socialised with regularly but he seemed like a laugh etc. Then I noticed that he was heavily competing with me, ie sells his car, adds another £20k to his mounting debt and buys a new car etc.Well I introduced this 'friend' to a local car club, which he really latches on to. He especially starts hanging onto a good mate of mine, to the extent that he was blowing me out, to see him, but not telling me who he was with. Basically pushing me right out of the loop. Anyway, he seems to have befriended a certain clique within that car club and slowly but surely has been ignorning me. To the point where I can turn up and he won't even say hello and even if I speak to him its two word answers. I've just let him get on with it for the time being, he's made enough of a tit of himself by the way he's behaved with a certain other member on that forum, much to the disapproval of other members. Thing is the final straw was today, I noticed he's removed me from his Friends list on Facebook. Now its only Facebook, I'm really not that bothered about that, but its the principle of it and the fact that its highlighted that he actually does have an issue with me. Now he's the kind of person who likes to flash the cash, look like he's cocky, shows off etc. Yet under the surface he's financially f*cked, married but living with parents. Stupid amounts of debt and has just taken a £9k pay cut because he couldn't handle the hours of his old job. I'm one of the only people who actually knows the details and I wonder if thats what he has a problem with. Aaaanyway, sorry to go. The main point is, should I actually say something. I don't mean cause a row but actually ask him outwright if he's got an issue with me?? I've spoken to his wife, who I knew before him and she just makes excuses for him. He treats her like crap and if it wasn't for her he'd have no way of paying for half of his debts anyway.Your thoughts please! Edited September 18, 2008 by Alex_225 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardaft Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Id say your well out of that one, dont bother, ignore him! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picola Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Will he be readin this per chance?Sounds like a tit and is in denial about the trouble (with money) hes in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricpanda Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Ask him what the **** he's playing at!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex_225 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 (edited) Thing is that would be the right thing to do to not say anything!! But I'm feeling more of a vengeful little f*cker at the moment! lolHe won't be reading this, which is a shame!! I've spoken to his wife who just makes excuses for him thats the annoying thing. She does everything to protect him from having a trantrum coz usually she gets the brunt of his strops. Edited September 18, 2008 by Alex_225 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And1Lupo Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Sounds like a tit from wat u've said, but i wouldn't know - id just leave it there and not give a hoot tbh if it was me lol - up 2 u tho - any point in sayin something ? worthwhile? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex_225 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 The only point would to make me feel better really haha. There's a few things I'd like to say to the guy about his behaviour anyway, not just to me but some of the things he's said/done revolving round this other car club. Doubt it'd make much difference in the long run other then p*ss him off but then again it seems thats already happened. There's always a way of wording things like this with a degree of diplomacy. I wouldn't intend on going in there full steam and cause a fight. Hmmmm we shall see. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picola Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 What goes around comes around. Just wait till it bites him on the ass then you can feel satisfied. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And1Lupo Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 The only point would to make me feel better really haha. There's a few things I'd like to say to the guy about his behaviour anyway, not just to me but some of the things he's said/done revolving round this other car club. Doubt it'd make much difference in the long run other then p*ss him off but then again it seems thats already happened. There's always a way of wording things like this with a degree of diplomacy. I wouldn't intend on going in there full steam and cause a fight. Hmmmm we shall see.Sit back - have a beer 4 the time being Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex_225 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 I'm impatient, I've been waiting for his circumtances to do that for aaaages and its just not happening!! lol Can't I be the catalyst, pleeeaaaase!! haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonny70 Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Next time you see him, dont say anything just dropkick him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bossjohnc Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 If you're feeling vengeful, do nothing. He will end up alone, bankrupt, ridiculed etc - but it will take time.There's always the chance that talking to him might knock some sense in to him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
L119 UPO Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Id leave him alone, not speak or attempt to make any contact with him whatsoever. Stick with genuine people.There are loads of people that will pull stunts like this, and it's just easier to stay away from them. You'll tend to find it's the ones who become over familliar too soon, trying to manipulate and take charge, pushing their luck etcDickheads basicly, and they never get anywhere so I wouldnt worry, it's no loss to you mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris260 Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Sounds like a ****. I'd steer clear and let him get on with it, it'll catch up with him in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orla Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 was there not a post very very similar to this posted a while back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crusoe Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Are you gay? Reads like my new bestest friend doesn't like me anymore and isn't talking to me. Man up, who cares. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talby Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 I would confront him, dont know about you but in a lot later life i will always be wondering what would have happened if i had done something and what if i could have changed something. But thats just me, good luck mate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daz_Kez Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Ask him what the **** he's playing at!!#2 : I love confronting people Next time you see him, dont say anything just dropkick him #3 : Although the dropkicking sounds really cool try options 1 &/or 2 first Sounds like a ****. I'd steer clear and let him get on with it, it'll catch up with him in the end.#1 : I'd try this, but if it winds you up too much, just confront him mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex_225 Posted September 19, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 Well I'm gonna sit back and just say b*llocks to him!! I can't be bothered to have words with the guy, cause a divide in a group of friends as I know if it kicked off there'd be that clique that would follow him. Not that it would be a pity.Quite interesting to see whose more of a pacifist than others haha. I just can't stand disloyal, ignorant people. One of things that gets to me really, no matter what age, people that turn their backs on mates really gets to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricpanda Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 (edited) Bash his missus, pork her, plough her, run a train or any other funny phrase you get my drift?? If you can't do it then get a mate to! OR Ask deej, I here 50quid will get him a "good seeing to" hahaha Edited September 19, 2008 by electricpanda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2001gti Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 Words arnt gunna do anythin, just punch him square on in the face sounds like a grade A tit to me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orla Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 knew i had seen this alreadyhttp://forums.clublupo.co.uk/index.php?sho...c=42729&hl= Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owieprone Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 omg you've just managed to get rid of the worst friend inthe world and you didn't actually have to do anything for this to happen and your complaining? *slap slap*rejoyce that you're free of the pathetic loser, carry on life as it were before he popped up with his forked tongue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottgroovez Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 Wouldn't worry, mate. Sounds like he suffers from severe lack of self esteem so tried to latch onto people who will give him the attention he craves. Once he's had his "fix" he'll seek it elsewhere. He was never a real friend to begin with, so you haven't lost anything. On the contrary you should be glad you've got shot of him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clairey Fairy Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 Has he got a hot sister?A game of hide the sausage should do the trick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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