Mouse_GTI Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 A very silly question but here goes...a girl I've kind of liked for a while I've recently found out she has a boyfriend. Is there any point in trying to be nice so to speak so if one day maybe she splits up with him. Oh how stupid am I? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiamD Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 How big is her boyfriend? On a serious note, I wouldn't get involved. I've been there, done that, and got the t-shirt, you'll probably end up getting hurt by her, if not, by her boyfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silver! Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 One should always be nice to everyone!After all you never know when you may want another person to be nice back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toddyw Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 if you play nice bud u may end up in the friend catogory.which tends to mean ul end up at the most a rebound.not good for yur head. id say keep ya distants n stay a flirty aquantance she sees every so often. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse_GTI Posted October 27, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 I definately wouldn't make a move while she was with someone, though if I ever found out things weren't going well I'd like to slyly get in there so to speak. But seriously meh, it will probably never happen. When you finally meet a girl you really like and seem to get on well with her, they always have a boyfriend. What makes him so special Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fran Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Don't do it, she won't appreciate it.Its how my stalker became my stalker. I'm off men for life. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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LiamD Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 I definately wouldn't make a move while she was with someone, though if I ever found out things weren't going well I'd like to slyly get in there so to speak. But seriously meh, it will probably never happen. When you finally meet a girl you really like and seem to get on well with her, they always have a boyfriend. What makes him so special Not always... I thought that and she did end up as my girlfriend and it was the worst relationship I ever had. Some might agree but when you first meet and how you first get on, seems a lot different to actually being in a relationship. In the end I liked her as a friend but not as a girlfriend (she wanted to settle down, I didn't).Although I'm probably not one for relationship advice, because I'm a **** boyfriend to have, but I would say just keep going out and having fun and you'll meet someone nice, and most importantly, single. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse_GTI Posted October 27, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 I've sort of had my fun for 3 years and now getting bored. There was a girl in the summer I met. We got on so good and hit it off straight away. Thought she was the one. Out of the blue she announced that she didn't want to see me as she was scared it would turn into a relationship and she got hurt by her ex. Yet find out weeks later she had been secretly meeting her ex after brushing me off out of the blue. Ahh well. And when I did try to speak to her after she just ignored me. I fail at relationships lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricpanda Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Avoid it, be nice but as a friend. Youll only end up getting a messed up head and being so jealous and mad when her boyfriend is a **** and your like....grrrrrrrrr id treat her so much better etc yada yada yada!! Just be sensible with things! Like Liam said he might hurt you nevermind her haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shteee Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Tell her to close her eyes and put your little friend in her mouth. If she bites its not going to happen lol, if she shows you how she gives treatment to a humbug sweet then atleast even if she doesnt want to be with you, you get a blowie and find someone else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shteee Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 WARNING ! Above advice may result in disformation, pain and possibly castration. On the other hand if she sucks you may only get a love bite Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartagram Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Shy bairns get nout! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricpanda Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Your always saying that!! Nice subtle return by the way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IDGM Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 If you're wanting to steal her away from her current boyfriend - good luck and be prepared for the fallout. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willcrook Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 A very silly question but here goes...a girl I've kind of liked for a while I've recently found out she has a boyfriend. Is there any point in trying to be nice so to speak so if one day maybe she splits up with him. Oh how stupid am I? should of moved in earlier, but your not stupid atall. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse_GTI Posted October 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 ...I just like the wrong ones lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niche Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Always go for it. Think of it this way...it's a new number to your phone book. And if you can't get her then you can get her mates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SARAHGTI Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Depends on how good looking you are compared to her boyfriend really?? My advice though, noone likes a creepy friend that always wants more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupyjude Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 (edited) Depends on how good looking you are compared to her boyfriend really?? My advice though, noone likes a creepy friend that always wants more!Fact.... women want what they cant have....Stay as her friend but dont be too friend like!! Make yourself seem appealing and fun (probably everything her boyfriend isnt)! Stay in touch but keep it on a flirty note!! Then if she ever does split with him your the exciting one she wants to be with not the rebound she can rely on!! Reverse psychology works every time!! Edited October 28, 2008 by lupyjude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shteee Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Give her a pearl necklace lol. I know its not diamonds but you want to get in there and not be "a girls best friend.." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse_GTI Posted October 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Fact.... women want what they cant have....Stay as her friend but dont be too friend like!! Make yourself seem appealing and fun (probably everything her boyfriend isnt)! Stay in touch but keep it on a flirty note!! Then if she ever does split with him your the exciting one she wants to be with not the rebound she can rely on!! Reverse psychology works every time!!I like the sound of this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupyjude Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 (edited) Ha ha... it works!! Ah the benfits of being a socio/psychologist!!! Edited October 28, 2008 by lupyjude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orla Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Fact.... women want what they cant have....So true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupyjude Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Don't I know it.... spent a lifetime with it!! LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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