tuggy

Hi guys,just bought a 1.2 fox and have a couple of questions.I have the urban model with central locking and it has the flashing led in the door,does this mean it has an alarm? Also can i use the ross tech software on this car? and where is the connection point? and finally i am missing the screw in tow eye for the front,are all vw ones the same? if so i can get one from ebay. thanks for any advice. tuggy