UPDATE:
After fitting those lower suspension arms, and i did comment on how the old ones didnt look too bad.. well after driving the car all this week i can report that the car is soooo different,
its stiffer which it should be, better handling, like the wheel doesnt feel so sloppy
its a great improvement, which i didnt think it needed
cant wait to buy the arb drop links now, which should tighten things up some more. Not sure i can replace much else! haha